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The exact moment I realized I was done was when I told him I wanted to go to therapy because of all the issues we were having (and he was antagonistic, attacking, and sabotaging when we went to couples therapy) and he flat out told me I couldn’t go unless he was in the room with me. That’s when I realized the extent of his controlling behavior and that it wasn’t going to get better. When we finally split up and I got away from him for a while I started to realize that so many of the things I’d accepted as okay were definitely not normal or okay. Buy it:  Funny Dance Like Frosty Shine Like Rudolph Give Like Santa Love Like Jesus Xmas Shirt

He changed so drastically once we got married. Once that happened I couldn’t keep explaining away all the red flags I’d seen before. Then when he flipped it on me and told me I had changed, not him. He took perfectly innocent things that I was doing and twisted everything into me being horrible and cheating on him (I wasn’t) - to the point where I just couldn’t take it anymore.  Buy it:  Official Hello 2021 Goodbye 2020 Happy New Year 2021 Wear Mask Corona Virus Shirt

And he judged everyone. Me. Strangers he just met. Friends. Family. Constantly critiquing them behind their backs. Me to my face. I was gaining weight. I shouldn’t wear that lipstick, it looks whorish. I used too much toilet paper when I peed. I went to bed too late. I needed to go to bed when he did. Unless he felt like staying up later than me, because that was fine. Buy it:  Great It’s A Laurie Thing You Wouldn’t Understand Stars Shirt

The reasons were that he and I argued constantly. Everything was an argument. I am NOT the type to argue, hardly ever. Then to suddenly be in a relationship where it was how he lived his life..his parents do it too. I thought they were fighting all the time and he would say they weren’t, they were just having a conversation. Any time I went to their house I’d get a headache. Buy it:  Premium First Christmas With My Hot New Wife Matching 2020 Shirt

Together for 7 years. Got married for just under a year and she cheated on me. Also thought us having a second child would "save our relationship". I had no idea things were as bad as they were until it was too late. Tried to do marriage counseling but she wouldn't have it. This was all within our house selling and us moving to a different province... I had 2 weeks to move and find a place in town, cancel my plans to move and new job, call a lawyer, all while dealing with extreme depression. I'm so thankful for the friends and family that came to my rescue Buy it:  Premium I Studied Triggernometry Gun Shirt

Not me, but a girl I know. The guy she was marrying left at the end of the wedding ceremony to drive to a hotel room to do a case race with a friend of his (split a 30 pack of beer as fast as they could). Apparently he was planning on going to the reception right after, but he got shitfaced in the hotel room and didn't wake up till the next morning, missed the reception and no one knew where he was. Buy it:  Nice Diving Evolution People Development Vintage Shirt